You make lists of all the things you want to do in your life and career—why not do the same for your sex life? Morse recommends compiling a list of everything you and your partner want to try, in the bedroom and out, then setting dates and letting the anticipation build. One idea to add to that list: some new locations outside the bedroom. "Be daring and spontaneous," says Morse. "What matters is the thrill of new places and new moves to go with them. You can't revert back to old-fashioned missionary when you're doing it in a cramped shower stall." True enough.